The Liar King
My children like me to tell them a bed time story, tell, not read, for whatever their reasons. Tonight, I told them a story based on a story I read called the Liar King by Robert L. Sheridan. A blurb tells about the liar this way: "The quack of all quacks – the most perfect, dirty, rotten scoundrel that in these latter ages has left his stain on the world’s history ... we have found in the Count Alessandro di Cagliostro ... unfortunate child of nature; by profession healer of diseases, abolisher of wrinkles, friend of the poor and impotent, grand master of the Egyptian Mason Lodge of High Science, spirit summoner, gold-cook, grand cophta, prophet, priest, and thaumaturgic moralist and swindler; really a liar of the first magnitude, thorough-paced in all provinces of lying, what one may call the king of liars" ... who made himself quite wealthy in his lifetime, and traveled and worked in noble circles throughout Europe." While the story, on the surface, seems to make the liar seem a likeable fellow, things that happen to most bad liars happened to him. The kids liked the story.
In our home, we have some rules that we follow, and when the rules are broken, punishment follows. Lying is a big no no. Lying destroys trust; it destroys futures. Except for murder and cheating (in the marital sense), there is no worse sin in the McCormick household than lying.
Why do people lie so much anyway? We lie all the time. White lies, face-saving lies, ass-saving lies, lies designed to keep from hurting somebody's feelings and lies to get revenge on those who have hurt our feelings. The really big whoppers though, are the lies we tell ourselves.
A man who runs a forum on Delphi has in his 'signature line' that he lives to fight bigotry, but his entire forum is devoted to hating and hurting Christians. He's living a lie or at least lying in his signature line. Lying may have reached its pinnacle on the internet for lying is so easy to do and so hard to detect. Why, though, one wants to hide what he/she is, what he/she does escapes me for when one lives a lie, no one knows you, so you are just as faceless as you want to be but without anyone having any real knowledge of you. It's a pathetic thing to have the need to lie, to be somebody at the expense of the truth and your friends, so-called, online. The coward who pretends to be brave is still a coward; the lady who is promiscuous but pretends to be a Christian woman of virtue is still a whatever word you wish to apply to such a woman. The person who pretends to be a virtuous spouse but does cybersex with the IM chatters is a cheat and a liar, etc. They may fool the people on the other end of the computer but they don't fool God, nor do they fool themselves.
What about those who lie for the good of others, you ask? There are some who feel that lying can be the "kind" thing to do inorder to avoid conflict. But lying is a very serious matter. Trust lost may never be regained and so many will lie much more thanthey originally intended to try to cover their "small" lie. Theyhave to keep telling bigger lies to cover their previous lying. The devil himself is the father of lies.
John 8:44 "Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of yourfather ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketha lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it."
There is NO good lie. A lie is a lie is a lie. The truth is always better. At the very least, speak not at all rather than lie. There is nothing more offensive to God than a lie. Or to me either.
In our home, we have some rules that we follow, and when the rules are broken, punishment follows. Lying is a big no no. Lying destroys trust; it destroys futures. Except for murder and cheating (in the marital sense), there is no worse sin in the McCormick household than lying.
Why do people lie so much anyway? We lie all the time. White lies, face-saving lies, ass-saving lies, lies designed to keep from hurting somebody's feelings and lies to get revenge on those who have hurt our feelings. The really big whoppers though, are the lies we tell ourselves.
A man who runs a forum on Delphi has in his 'signature line' that he lives to fight bigotry, but his entire forum is devoted to hating and hurting Christians. He's living a lie or at least lying in his signature line. Lying may have reached its pinnacle on the internet for lying is so easy to do and so hard to detect. Why, though, one wants to hide what he/she is, what he/she does escapes me for when one lives a lie, no one knows you, so you are just as faceless as you want to be but without anyone having any real knowledge of you. It's a pathetic thing to have the need to lie, to be somebody at the expense of the truth and your friends, so-called, online. The coward who pretends to be brave is still a coward; the lady who is promiscuous but pretends to be a Christian woman of virtue is still a whatever word you wish to apply to such a woman. The person who pretends to be a virtuous spouse but does cybersex with the IM chatters is a cheat and a liar, etc. They may fool the people on the other end of the computer but they don't fool God, nor do they fool themselves.
What about those who lie for the good of others, you ask? There are some who feel that lying can be the "kind" thing to do inorder to avoid conflict. But lying is a very serious matter. Trust lost may never be regained and so many will lie much more thanthey originally intended to try to cover their "small" lie. Theyhave to keep telling bigger lies to cover their previous lying. The devil himself is the father of lies.
John 8:44 "Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of yourfather ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketha lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it."
There is NO good lie. A lie is a lie is a lie. The truth is always better. At the very least, speak not at all rather than lie. There is nothing more offensive to God than a lie. Or to me either.
5 Comments:
You can bet that no one spanks HIM. lol
Rita
By Anonymous, at 9:59 PM
Funny you should post about this because in our household we are reading the book Shiloh which deals with a boys decision to tell an ever expanding list of lies in an attempt to protect a dog from it's abusive, cruel owner. The adults around the boy are firm that its a matter of property right and that the man can treat the dog pretty much how he chooses.
The boy, of course, is determined to protect the dog. I am not sure how it's going to resolve. I believe the boy someone raises money to actually buy the dog.
Anyway, I want my kids to be honest with me. MOST the time honesty works. On the other hand, if the Nazi's were knocking on our door, I'd vote for lying to protect the jews hiding in the attic. Not likely to work out just that way, but makes me think.
By Hopeful, at 2:24 AM
Let's hope no Nazis come to Dana's door. lol How about not blurting out where the Jews are without lying?
As for my transgressions, God takes care of me and my sins, but I do not lie to my wife and children.
Rita.. you are still a troublemaker and your father obviously didn't spank you long or hard enough. :)
Iva, I'll take care of you later. ;)
By Johnny, at 4:56 AM
His signature line is misleading. The symbolism in the signature is interesting.. A knight in black armour, the cross-bow (or what ever it is) points to the words bigotry, hypocrisy, and destroying myths or religious myths, something like that.
It would appear by the title of the forum, that the goal is to lure in the unsuspecting christian then show them up with their superior scientific approach (I am being a tad cynical). Some of the assumptions made seemed a bit superstitious to me, not based on facts or rational thought. There were, also, narrow minded views to other peoples opinions.
As for liars, I do not like them. It is better to say nothing at all, than to tell a lie.
There is a proverb that says, 'a lying tongue hates those it hurts'
and another 'the righteous hate that which is false.'
Di
By Anonymous, at 7:34 AM
I agree their intent is to lure people in under false pretenses. I do believe every Christian forum on Delphi is aware of that fact now.
By Johnny, at 8:03 AM
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